HAPPY NOW?

I'm not even sure what to say today.  My son's name is still not on his tomb.  I assume because we are still battling the life insurance company (the wonderful Metlife who is screwing many of their clients at the moment) for our claim which they said the day we made the arrangements, before we made them, that we "were all set and everything looked good to go" then came up months later telling us that Andy didn't sign some paper he needed to sign so they were denying the claim "but they would gladly refund all of our payments" (BLEEP BLEEP BLEEP)  So we had to hire an atty and he's handling it.  He says we will get out money ...question is WHEN?  In the meantime we are in limbo HOPING the cemetary will wait and not move him to an in ground burial site...which would still be unmarked mind you.  Further there is no vase even for us to put flowers.  So I made the plaque that you see above and attached to the back is something to put flowers in.  I think it's obvious that someone took time to make this? 

Well today we went to the cemetary and everything was gone.  All of it...the plaque, flowers everything.  I don't know who took them.  Regardless isn't a person's grief something to be respected?  Apparenetly not.  When the press is allowed to swoop in on disaster victims, post pictures of accident victims, protesters are allowed to protest at funerals...mine is minor compared to those and I know how I feel right now.  I have said before I was just barely hanging on...I feel like someone is out there TRYING to push me off.  Well if you are reading this and that person is you...you're doing a GREAT JOB!  Two thumbs up to you!  But let me point something out to you while you're at this...and spreading your rumors and all.  If you're goal is to push me over the edge...I would GLADLY go be with my son right now!  It's not ME that you would be doing the long term damage to.  Have you thought about that?

Well...if you haven't.....think about it!  She's been through more than enough.  It's not just me that you hurt.  Further what gets me, is that the people I have been told are causing the trouble are people I don't even know, who don't know us, so I'm curious...WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM?